


"I wish we didn't argue so much..."
"Why can't I be loved for who I am?"
"We used to have so much fun together..."
"I'm tired of walking on egg shells..."
"I feel so misunderstood all the time..."
"I am being so clear, how do they not understand me?"
"I love them but they're driving me CRAZY!"
LOVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP is a 4 week course that will help you learn how to love yourself and your partner more deeply & create the relationship you have always dreamed of!
We get it, relationships can be hard work. You might be in love with your partner, but you DON'T love all of the arguments, you're tired of not feeling seen, and the stressors of life seem to be bogging down your intimacy.
We've learned from personal experience being together for 30 years and mentoring thousands of couples that there are a few key tools and insights that will drastically shift how your relationship feels and bring you back to a place of fun, play & connection.
Love Your Relationship will help you create the ease in your relationship that you deeply desire and know is possible.
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Jan & Monika Zands
We know first hand that creating an intimate, loving, and happy relationship doesn't just happen by itself. It takes desire, intention, and willingness to meet each other where you're at and hold the space for each others growth.
We want to share with you what we've learned along the way, both the good and the bad, so that you don't have to go through what we did to love your relationship.

BREATHE
DIVE INTO
your relationship in a totally unique way to know exactly what is needed through the important moments.
EXPERIENCE
Creating less misunderstanding, less arguments, and fostering more love.
Learn to love themselves which leads to being able to love their partner better and more fully
Discovering blindspots that have been impacting their relationships.
Uncover the three fatal pitfalls of love: blame, shame, and guilt.
Being open to Playing , exploring, and trying new things with their partner.
Navigating challenges as a team, and working together instead of against each other through the hard moments life throws at them.
You love your partner and you still believe that you can have the relationship and life you've always dreamed of.
You're eager to release what's not working and ready to receive support.
You're tired of feeling stuck in the same patterns and want to remember how to laugh, play and enjoy your time together.
You're ready to grow and tend to your relationship in new and innovative ways.
You're not open to coaching and don't want to hear from those who hold different views of the world than you.
You're so over your relationship, you're not willing to do any work and you just want it to end.
You believe it is someone elses fault for the circumstances you are in.
You're more comfortable blaming yourself or others for the way things are in life instead of considering the possibility that things could be different

Create commitment to uncovering blindspots and feel like you are on the same page with your partner.


Learn to effectively understand and be understood by your partner to minimize arguments.






"I gotta tell you, my life is transformed FOR THE GREATER GOOD. I'm a better mom, wife, and woman! I'm living with purpose!"
"The biggest thing we have come out of this program with, is a clear understanding of who we are as a family and now we work together even stronger."
"We got the support we needed to successfully handle the challenging times & are so thankful for the tools & resources to have a loving & everlasting relationship.”
7:30pmEST
LIVE Group Coaching Classes via zoom for each week (90 min)
Course Workbook: Get a downloadable workbook chock full of lessons and assignments that will powerfully transform your relationship.
Private Online Community with Jan + Monika and everyone else in the program!
COUPLES only need one ticket - your partner can join for free!

Our relationship is happy now... but trust us, it has been a lot of WORK. Our marriage has been anything but a typical fairytale romance. We fell in love, we broke up, we got back together, we got engaged, we broke up again, and then got back together and got married. And now we've been together for 30 years and have 3 kids. So we figured it out, right?
Our first year of marriage was a DISASTER. We loved each other, but we couldn't figure out how to get along. One of us led the fights, obsessed with being right, and the other feared the pending break-up that came with each fight. We both started to feel like we would never be able to figure this out. Maybe love wasn't enough. We weren't happy and we didn't know how to fix it.
Fast forward to today, we now both have Master's in Spiritual Psychology, and we spend our days coaching people on their relationships, their communication, and their Self-love.
Through the combination of our education, training, and personal life experiences, we've learned to create the relationship of our dreams and we're passionate to help others create theirs. And don't get us wrong, we still have upsets, but now we know how to navigate those challenges. We know how to communicate with each other, we know how to support each other, we strive to love each other, and recognize each other's strengths and lift each other's weaknesses. We've learned the practice of not taking things personally. Our commitment is to work through whatever comes up, no matter what. We are a team, and we tackle our problems together instead of against each other. And we know now that there is nothing that needs to be "fixed", only things to be discovered.
It's clear we've put in the miles to foster a healthy, loving, supportive relationship, but it didn't happen by accident, and it certainly didn't happen overnight. We didn't just get "lucky." We worked HARD for it. We've learned to listen, to forgive, to apologize, to be honest, to acknowledge each other, and to discover something new about each other daily so that we are always growing. Now that we're not spending time and energy working shit out, we get to USE that energy being romantic, creative, playful, silly, loving, and joyful (and our kids reap the benefits too...).
So you can probably guess why we want to pay this forward to you. We want you to get to your happy place in your relationship. We want you to feel loved, supported, heard, and understood so that you can LOVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
Is this course only for couples?
No! While couples will benefit, if you are single, you can use this course to work on loving yourself, and gaining the skills necessary to create the relationship you desire when you meet that special someone.
What if I can't make the live zoom calls?
While we highly encourage you to attend the zoom calls live (its only for a month), they will be recorded if you can't make them!
What if we already love our relationship?
Even if you already love your relationship this program can support you in experiencing even deeper love, greater connection and more fun with your partner.
What if I don't want a relationship right now?
This course will equip you to love yourself more and have the transformation needed to simply love more - as a friend, parent, child, or coworker - and build relationships you love.
Is this course only for couples?
No! While couples will benefit, if you are single, you can use this course to work on loving yourself, and gaining the skills necessary to create the relationship you desire when you meet that special someone.
What if I can't make the live zoom calls?
While we highly encourage you to attend the zoom calls live (its only for a month), they will be recorded if you can't make them!
What if we already love our relationship?
Even if you already love your relationship this program can support you in experiencing even deeper love, greater connection and more fun with your partner.
What if I don't want a relationship right now?
This course will equip you to love yourself more and have the transformation needed to simply love more - as a friend, parent, child, or coworker - and build relationships you love.